Originally Posted by dollydo

To be honest, I don't understand why you feel the way you do. He is violent and out of control. You were not stupid to call 911, I would have done it long ago.

He is an adult I would let him go to court tomorrow and face the music. Your trying to "save" him has not helped him one bit. Why not try something else? It can work in his favor, if, he learns that his behavior is not acceptable to you or anyone.

I am sorry that you are going through this yet again, take this time to work on you. Get to some meetings, read "CoDependent No More". If you have read it before, reread it.