I know exactly what you mean Summerpeach.. I fall MADLY in love.. and it devastates me when it ends, for a long, long time.. however.. they always manage to POP back up.. tell me how long it took to get over me, they love me, etc.. and, I feel NOTHING. I mean, I care for them.. but in a sexual, physical, emotional attraction, no thanks.
Sorry you are hurting...
