Why do seriously overweight people lose the weight ( surgery assisted or otherwise) and then regain it and often more?
Why do people fill their closets and homes with stuff they do not need, despite that the acquisition gets them deeper into serious debt?
Why do people consolodate their debt and then use credit cards and do it all over again?
Why does an ex smoker light up again?
Why do we codependents become fixated on fixing other people, despite the universal lack of a successful track record?
The " it " seems to offer temporary relief from reality, life as is/where is.