Doesn't that feel great?
That's very inspiring. I'm the same way. My AH was hit by a hit and run driver in a rental car (this was when his own car was in the shop by his own one car alcohol related accident). Imagine my panic when I received the call that he was hit by someone in the rental car! My old self went into control mode, I worked with the insurance company yada yada (I knew there was no alcohol involved on his part because the police were directly involved). I did let go eventually, he went to court, handled some of the insurance paperwork. I'm CONVINCED I would have taken over if it had been his fault and if it was alcohol related, and it would have sucked me under. I'm so glad you were able to let your RAH handle this on his own...how freeing for you!