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Old 08-23-2010, 10:49 AM
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MsPINKAcres
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or honey maybe you are just on your own path of recovery right now too!

Maybe it will take some time for you to be in a healthier place to be able to communicate with him on things.

Just because we don't talk about things at a certain time, doesn't mean that the opportunity won't arise at the right time.

Truly there is no "pretending" - You know the Truth and so does he

the fact that you don't discuss it at every occasion that it could be discuss to me is allowing him the opportunity to be a responsible adult and to make the healthy decisions to do the Next Right Thing for himself.

If he does't, then you of course could work on a Plan B if you felt you were ready to do that -

But sometimes waiting to talk about things ~ seemed to defuse the imediate stress of the moment and gave a better opportunity for calm discussion of feelings, thoughts and solutions.

Just my e, s, & h,
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