Thank your support Suzie.
Yes he was drinking and taking drugs before I cut her out of my life, but according to him he only got worse because of the tense situation and he had to 'numb' himself.
Also at his mothers funeral 4 months ago he said that I made it harder as this girl came to the funeral and wake and it made it harder for him as we would be on opposite sides of the room.
'I can understand how you feel let down by two important people in your life and now all of a sudden you are being made out to be the baddy'
That is exactly how I felt and especially when he came out of rehab he ran to her and cut me out of his life.