ALSO, when I was diagnosed with bi-polar I had the option of leaving him high and dry for 30 days to get better, but I didn't! I couldn't leave my him and our daughter like that! I worked through the **** while STILL taking care of my responsibilities!! Again, no congratulations, no worries, no coddling from anyone, just me dealing with **** like an ADULT! How can I go through all this **** and not take it out on my family but not him? I dealt with my problems and didn't make ANYONE suffer along with me, why can't he do the same for ME??