Originally Posted by
sadpanda 
It just doesn't seem right! Aren't couples supposed to get through the tough times together?[/B] How is being apart going to help anything but driving us apart?
Not to put to fine a point on it, but you're sounding rather selfish and self absorbed. This is supposed to be a time of healing. If you love him you will start figuring out how to become healthy with him, instead of complaining about how unfair life is.