Originally Posted by
Summerpeach 
Duped, mindbloggling is right.
I spoke to the ex today. He's showing very little sympathy towards the pain I feel about being cheated on.
I tried to explain (my 1st mistake) to get him to understand how devastated I am, telling him I lost 10 lbs in 2 weeks (yes I have), I'm not sleeping and just am sick over this.
I mean, who doesnt' want the person who hurt them make it all ok right?
His reply was "I please, I'm sure you've been doing the same thing behind my back for years" (meaning having on line affairs)" <---YIKES!
Then downplayed the cheating by saying "it was only a few txt's and emails and I met with her once"
MINDBOGGLING is right Duped!
And again, like a lost kitten, I sat there holding the phone in shock!
His cannot accept how he hurt me so it's better to make me the bad guy to say I did it also, and the cheating "meant nothing"
Funny thing, it meant something to me!
Yep. Mine has done some heinous things in the past year, but the MO is now to try and paint me in as negative light as possible to anyone who will listen, and to make me into the bad guy. She's succeeding, but only to a point. Soon you won't allow him to hurt you anymore.