Thank you all for your help. But the reality is she moved back home and is once again drinking. I asked her to move out, which she finally did. She responded by taking a dozen or so painkillers at a friends house and ending up in the emergency room. She got out the next day and started the insanity again. She has checked herself back into rehab. Needless to say she won't be moving back in. Hopefully she will follow suggestions this time and move to an SLE after rehab. It's up to her. I know what I can and can't control. I can only take care of myself and my girls. Thanks again