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Now that's a huge question.. I suppose the same could be said from the other side.. "Why don't they just LEAVE the relationship?".
Addiction is a curious thing.. powerful, life altering.. if any of us could answer either of those questions, this board would be uneccessary, as would treatment centers for addiction and codependence, and (on and on).
Yeah, that was kinda my point. It's funny how they'll fight for that drink, yet never see that the fact that they have to fight for it means there is a serious problem.