Because alcoholism is progressive...it sounds like a trainwreck to me.
I am sorry if that sounds harsh and cold.
I honestly just don't see anything here that would give me hope for a loving mutual relationship.
I want more than rent and a guy one or two days a week...with an attitude that it is such a sacrifice or favor. hogwash.
I had to leave a relationship like that and it was hard, yeah it was. But wow, am I glad I did.
My guy buys a beer .....one can.....every once in awhile. There is no beer in the fridge. I am so glad that I won't ever have to deal with that insanity again.
It is bigger than I am and took me down...low and hard.
I had to escape for my well being and the"bill of rights" pursuit of happiness.
It's constitutional, ya know...so pretty important.
He is either going to get in treatment or get much worse.
That is alot of heartache to take on.
If you were my daughter I would advise you to let him go and get on with your precious life.