Originally Posted by
ChrrisT 
This just sounds like anyone who is married or something I might say to my children. Hey let's spend time together yeahhhh.
I am so confused as to what IS acceptable. If the above is NOT, then what is? "Hey you want to go the park with me it's a beautiful"
But what if he (the A) asks the same thing? Is he now a co-dependent?
I don't think it's the
asking, it's the
expecting. So, ask him to go to the park. But, if he doesn't want to, let it go.
At least in my case, that was the problem. Not that I would ask him to do things, but that I would get hurt, angry, or petulant if he didn't want to.
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