Originally Posted by
Summerpeach 
People do crazy things when they are being unfaithful
My ex told me 3 nights before I caught him cheating that I needed to trust him and SWORE he was not cheating. Well he was!
It's all so unsettling
Eggzackly what made me bring up gaslighting in the first place. That gut feeling is absolutely infallible. I will never doubt it again. The thrill of infidelity must be heightened to near ecstasy by beating the third degree from the woman he's betraying.