These were my ex's common ones he used on me. Along with him saying something, then denying he said it. I never and still dont take it personally, A addict needs to keep his addiction alive in any way he can.
**You're jumping to conclusions.
**You see everything in the most negative way!
**You're always nagging me about something all the time.
**You're making things up in your head or blowing things out of proportion.
**Your imagination is working overtime.
**You have an overactive imagination.
**You take everything wrong.
**You see everything wrong.
**You have never believed in me, then!
**You think you know it all.
**You always have to be right
**You're just trying to pick a fight.
**You're looking for trouble. (he used this one on me when we broke up 11 days ago when he was worried I was going to go his married lovers husband)
**I've had it with your attacks/bitching/complaining