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Old 08-18-2010, 06:13 AM
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puddinface
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Originally Posted by FarawayFromCars View Post
Hi Puddin...sending you hugs. My Alcoholic Sister only gets furious when we confront her about drinking and she is drinking. She does the whole silent treatment, "it's all your fault" thing to take the focus away from her problem. So I understand how you feel...and it can be so sad and frustrating.

Have you thought about boundaries?

Hi Faraway! Thanks so much for your thoughts. You are right...this could very well be why he was giving me the silent treatment as well. He definitely does not like to be confronted by me on his drug use. As far as the boundaries go - it's a work in progress for me. I'm going to keep my eye on him and if I see anything that seems off to me - I will confront again. If he doesnt like it - he will have to move out!
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