He doesn't hate yoou at all puddinface. As a matter of fact its probably just the opposite. Unil he becomes humble in certain ways I can bet he still is using. I'm only comparing this to my son and the way he acted when using and I thought he was fine....after 2 rehabs here my son has completelt changed. This doesn't mean that drugs will never pop up again but I'm praying they don't. Don't let him use you hon. It took me forever to really get it. Counciling, meetings and my best approach was with an addiction specialist. She really opened my eyes, made me cry uncontrollably~~ and lit a fire in me. But it took me 2 years to really see the light. So, go with your instincts and if that means making him sleep in the streets~~do it now (while the weather is nice))))))...allow no drugs in your house at all...look for them. Its your house.....I love my son also but I'm not helping with anything he can do for himself anymore. Good luck and positive energy coming your way....stay strong, Bonnie