Thank you...I think I will take advantage of the situation.....All the years we have come here together as a couple...I always felt responsible and upset when he would get drunk and stupid.....Last year...he made just about everyone in the house mad with his drunken behavior....I don't feel that way this year....I got some good sun today...played in the ocean with the kids....shopped.....I can basically do what I want...The inlaws always have things planned for the kids.....So I am having a great time in spite of the difficult circumstances.....It's all about having the right attitude..
I'm okay seeing him at home at school functions....birthday parties....He is ALWAYS welcome at anything that is for the kids.....Just a little weird situation here....But all is well so far....I am trying to let my guard down, thank you all for helping me through this....