How do I do that when he is now risking his job? We have been separated for 3 1/2 years and divorced for half of that, but it's never been this bad until this year. He has a really great job that he now hasn't shown up for all week. He's claiming the flu to them, but it's so he can binge by himself in his apartment. He was off for 3 weeks earlier this year when he quit drinking the first time. Pretty sure they are starting to catch on at work.
I know I can't control this, but it's frustrating. The only thing I could ever say about him is that he's reliable when it comes to work and child support. Everything the kids and I have is based on my income and his support. If he messes this up it affects him and us.
Okay, I will get through no matter what happens, but it will mean selling my house which will affect my kids as well as me.
I'm sorry for the vent, but I really HATE this disease.
