Maybe I don't understand how to wet boundaries. I don't feel like he respects any boundary I set ever.....please can you give me an example of this. I told him if he didn't start to respect me I would ask him to leave...and I did. I don't know how to stop his behavior anymore......and I agree LTD...it is the same as before, but now he treats me bad and has the freedom he wants too! Normal people, relationships, if they wanted them to work you'd actually think they'd try to make things better...nope not him! Please can you give me some ideas of how to set and enforce a boundary?