Originally Posted by
FreeingMyself 
I hate my life w/ him!
Correct me if I'm wrong, but the purpose of separation is NOT to have a life with him. The solution to your problems is boundaries. You separated from him, yet he still calls you, texts you, comes over, touches you, threatens you, and basically does all the same things he did while you were living under the same roof. This must stop. You must stand up and set down some boundaries. Otherwise, what is the point in being separated?
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