Aw, that IS sad Wow, that he is missing out on the experience. But that is what he chooses for his life and, hard as I imagine it must be for you, there is nothing anyone can do to change that. It is not your responsibility to make it happen for him. Good for you for choosing sobriety for yourself and good for you for choosing to provide a sober environment and sober upbringing for your child!! That is so good to hear!!