Hi and welcome to the family!
You have found a wonderful source of information and support. Please make yourself at home by reading and posting as much as needed.
I am going to share a link from one of our sticky (permanent) posts. It has tips for the family of active alcoholics. Here is the link:
http://www.soberrecovery.com/forums/...l-problem.html
You are not alone. We are here to support you