Welcome, KariSue. We all jump around the different threads a bit. Pardon our silliness just trying to lighten the mood some.
I think there are others here that share your problem with close family. I have a step daughter addicted to crack, living on the streets of L.A... Tried to help her many times and different ways but she doesn’t want the help. She has been in and out of jail for the past 10 years. Heart breaking, but I don’t think she will change until she wakes up and wants to change!