Ya just don't get it....
You did the most irritating thing you can do to an alcoholic, recovering or not....
You went out and got a life and IT WASN'T WITH HIM. I don't think this is an alkie issue - its an ego thing. How DARE you have fun....at night....laughing...without it being all about him? How could you move on without being doubled over in pain at the idea that life could go on without him? You minx.....