Silk-
I have felt 'bugged' too at times, and it's usually because someone hit a nerve. In the end, everything is up to her; hopefully she found something useful to help her in her situation.
I find myself thinking about too and being annoyed. It's like talking to a friend who just won't get it.
There have been post from newcomers that I haven't seen in along time - and I'm thinking - I just know she took him back. It's so silly.