Old 08-06-2010, 07:26 AM
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Duped
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Badchoices - I did something somewhat similar to you only to find out that the new person in my life was faking her way through recovery to get out of the bad situation she was in.

I bailed her out of it. Cleaned her up, got her in a new place etc.

$30,000 and one child later I am still paying for my mistake of getting involved with the wrong person. My child was the only good thing to come of it.

Once I stopped enabling her I was out of the picture and a new man is now in her life who enables her. I became expendable. Tossed aside like a dirty dish cloth. Be ready for a long hard road. Unfortunately her recovery is not happening without me either, because she simply moved on to the new fellow.

All my friends and family were pushed out of her life because they were a threat to her addiction. She surrounds herself only with her enablers.
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