Old 08-05-2010, 01:25 PM
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LaTeeDa
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Originally Posted by BadChoices View Post
I'm not going to leave him, I don't see how that is going to help anything.
Well, in my case, leaving him helped me to have a better life. Whether it helped him or not, who knows? I stayed nearly 20 years and had two children with him. All that staying and supporting and hoping and wishing did nothing to help him. And it nearly destroyed me.

So, maybe you can understand how someone like me would say two months is nothing. You deserve better and if you get out now, maybe you will find it. Odds are, if you stay, it will get worse. Much worse.

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