I can't imagine one single positive outcome of you airing your judgments regarding his child or his parenting style.
ugh. thank you. I know I"m a judgemental jerk. Better boundaries are in order.
Here's a question for your collective wisdom:
Why does creating these boundaries make me feel guilty and afraid that they will misunderstand me, rather than making me feel better?
My experience is that I engaged in this high emotional stuff first, which makes me feel like an unstable freak. When i set boundaries straight away, without emotionally reacting, I feel better.