Lucky for you, the holidays are a long way off.
I hate to say this, but when my my XABF started on his recovery, I thought 90 days, that should be good. Well it's 6 months, and I've got to say, honestly, I need more time, he needs more time. He's not drinking, he's going to meetings, he has a sponsor, but boy that alcoholic behavior hangs on. It's hard, there is still manipulation, and anger and resentment, not at me, yet...but take your time...lots and lots of it. You have nothing to lose by taking your time and seeing what he does, more than what he says. And you have everything to lose by rushing in. Right?