Originally Posted by
ThatWasThen 
Mostly I'm angry that she took the opportunity for us to have a good life together and destroyed it.
That is exactly,
exactly how I feel about my alcoholic former husband. Hello, and welcome; yours is a familiar story, but it's new and painful for every person who goes through it.
I can say from experience that it is still possible to have a good life, however, it won't ever be the one you were expecting to have.
Pull up a chair, make yourself at home!
--BG