Thanks, Suki!
He's lucky I had the 20 to give. I was laid off a couple months ago and he was eating up a lot of the funds and working very little. He might have brought in a couple hundred if we were in a bad bind, pretty much worthless any other time! He ate up most of the groceries that were bought so now I'm left with only a little, but I am very determined to do this. I have always been independent, so I'll do what I have to maintain.
I tried another site, but I really like this one because it's a compilation of everything from stories of "befores", "durings", and just dealing with the flood of emotions after.
((((((Hugs))))))