Hey Freeingmyself-
I suspect yet another name change in your future! From mentallyexh to Freeingmyself to free!
So glad you have this perspective, and I know how stressful financial hardship is after a separartion/divorce - but not nearly as hard as living within a negative/toxic relationship. Freedom from fear & emotional abuse is priceless. You're doing great!!
Peace-
B