katie
You are taking care of you. That is so good. It is amazing how they can pull us back into their drama with the tears and promises and pleading and on and on....ad nauseum.....but you're holding in there and letting him realize that he is responsible for where he is right now. And it's up to him to change his circumstances. As I write this, I'm writing it for myself as much as I'm writing it for you. I, too, have to continually remind myself that I am not responsible for my AS's consequences. He is.
gentle hugs for remaining true to yourself