Originally Posted by
suki44883 
If you do not have children with this man, then there is no reason for you to have any contact with him whatsoever, unless you aren't done with him. The only way to get past being sucked back in is to go no contact. No email, no postal mail, no texting, no phone calls, nothing! You hold the key to your chains.
I had to learn my lesson the hard way, but at least I learned it. No contact is the only way to protect yourself, and the only way to work on yourself.