Babies are great, Lulu! And thankfully, he isn't the only dude on earth with sperm to spare. So yeah---awesome--babies! And one day, you'll have one--with someone healthy and truly loving. What he fails to realize is that he is not the ONLY dude you can make a baby with, although I'm sure he'd like you to think so. So consider that picture of that baby to be a reminder to you that any baby you DO eventually have deserves a healthy home with healthy parents--not a stressed mother and quacking, alcoholic father..