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Old 07-28-2010, 07:54 PM
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Jadmack25
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His disease is controlling him and his life, and screwing up his marriage, but it is not to be discussed, because he can't handle it. So now he wants to force you into the control of his addiction by shutting you up, and you not being permitted to speak your mind on what is upsetting your life.

Time I think for Codependence No More, getting to an Alanon meeting and being with those who listen to you, understand and support you, and keep coming here.

I told RABF some time back that, if he ever again told me to shut up about MY concerns, or described my comments as cr*p or lies, he would be the sorriest man on earth. I meant it. Listening to their drivel and drunken mutterings is bad enough, without being insulted by having our being as a person, tossed aside as unimportant.

The only person you can help, strengthen and care for is YOU, and that needs to be as high a priority for you, as your man's drinking is for him....like Number 1.

It is the price demanded for being in a "relationship", with an alcoholic.

God bless
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