Okay, I am not ready do date yet by any means, but I have a lot of concerns for when I do. Now that I've gotten out of a relationship with this A, I'm afraid that I'm going to think that everyone that I date might be one. When I'm out and I see people drinking, I wonder if they are as well. I feel like I'm being over judgemental now to things that I never even used to pay attention to.
I am wondering if I'll be able to tell the difference between a man who can enjoy a few drinks here and there without it getting out of hand, from one who will eventually let it take over his life. I'm probably over thinking this but I just don't know. Why can some people handle drinking once in a while on the weekends and some can't?