I'm sorry first of all. I was almost on the same path, but I decided early on to ask my alcoholic baby fathers to get out. I was terrified for my baby. You must think of your children before him. It is better to come from a broken home than live in 1. Be strong for the next 3 weeks and you should probably take your babies and run. I realize this is your life and only you know what is best. I am speaking for your children; they must come first. I KNOW it is hard go deep within listen to your gut.