Yes I have a 5 year old and 3 year old, he is the father of both. I already realize how badly they have been affected by his drinking..his last bout was bad, my 5 year old even asked me if daddy really loved her. I know I have to leave..3 weeks till my new apt is move in ready. I am just trying to stay strong and not give in. I know he wants to get better but I cannot just go back to him on his words alone anymore. I need to see that he is doing something about and long term sobriety.