Dear Miss
That is a sad thing for him.
It sucks that we are flooded with all those empathetic and loving emotions, when stuff like this happens. It's cruel actually.
It's like when you have a baby, no really, while in the worst agony of our (mother's) lives we say NEVER AGAIN! WHAT WAS I THINKING!!! I am never doing THAT again!!
But some "other" power has different plans for us. And they make us forget that agony.
Of course the outcome is a bit different.
But the lesson is the same - you need to remember the AGONY!
Keep your control over your life.
Keep us posted