I know some of this sounds crazy like him not letting me go to ALanon because of his embarrassment and shame, but I am pretty low on energy and I have to pick the issues carefully to keep from overload. I have a therapist who tells me I have done pretty well dealing with this, but that doesn't seem like enough rightnow and when I talk with my otherwise very loving hus band about what i see and what I feel he just can't see it, but he is very good recognizing his friends as addicts and alcoholics. I am amazed what alcohol has done to him even when he doesn't drink.
I will be going to Alanon this weekend9he agreed) and am hoping that I can get a sponsor.
I need to take care of me and that usually involves getting out of town for the weekend usually to the beach. My next trip is 6 weeks away. The beach is so quieting for me.
Does anyone here know of an Al Anon meeting I can go to on the NH seacoast that is on the weekend.
