Thank you so much for all the replies........I tried to talk to him (sober him) tonight but it did not go well at all. He told me again to just leave if I wasn't happy because he is not changing. Then he turned the tv on & tuned me out. It's so tough.....I know talking does me no good-I just never seem to learn a lesson. It just makes me upset & makes me feel like I'm crazy..constantly banging my head against the wall!!!!!!! Just had to rant....so, so, frustrated......
