Hi DVD,
My wife kicked me out when I was at my worst - and it was the best thing she could have done. Be there for her when she chooses the path out of there - if that's what you want but until then you've got to get sane, get strong, and get prepared. I'm so ashamed of the person I became when I was drinking and owe my wife everything as a result.
You've got your work cut out DVD - Take care of yourself, and make the most of the goodfolk here.
Deg.