Originally Posted by
Kittyboo 
Sadly, it's all a manipulation. Everything is always a manipulation..... it seems to me at least.
Isn't that the truth. My xah didn't really say mean things to me when we were together. After I file for divorce he'd be nice, then get ugly, then be nice, want to win me back, then say mean and awful things. Emotional manipulation and abusive tactics is a strange way to win someone back but - he's a loon. I'm so glad I'm out of that situation. It is sad though.