How could anyone desert such a caring, loving and charming man?
Honestly, I have to wonder if tidal pull is not responsible for such weird thinking.
You had to leave for your salvation, because he is enough to send anyone stark raving insane.
It is difficult to give ideas or even look for places to go for help, when we don't know where you are and some suggestions may be unworkable for you.
He obviously believes that might is right, and is using every trick he knows to stymie you.
Do not believe one single word you get from his lawyer, it may not be a lie, but it won't be all truth either....and sent to undermine you and lean things his way.
Can you demand a copy of all documentation from them, as they are doing to you, and in fact whatever they ask of you, if applicable, you ask the same from them.
I pray that your hassles melt away, that you get the financial and legal help you need, and that the law is NOT an ass, when it comes to sorting out your facts from his fiction.
God bless