OMG, heard that one before. I actually DID go to my ex's therapist, who told him, "ok, try moderation management, but you have to be prepared that it may not work, and formulate a plan for if it doesn't."
Despite the fact that my ex got excessively drunk several times after that, and couldn't stay away from the bar, he still will not admit the experiment failed. It was a total waste of time.
Kudos to you, for staying strong.
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missb89 
He called and I let him know that we won't be visiting. He tried to lure me into coming to talk about going to counseling. He said if they tell him theres something wrong that he will fix it. He also told me it takes two people to make a relationship work and that I'm giving up, and that Ayla & I will always have his heart. I apologized for my past anger, told him I loved him, but that it takes one person to admit responsibilty and chose their path. I wished him the best and still am left with a broken heart, but at least I said what was needed.