He called and I let him know that we won't be visiting. He tried to lure me into coming to talk about going to counseling. He said if they tell him theres something wrong that he will fix it. He also told me it takes two people to make a relationship work and that I'm giving up, and that Ayla & I will always have his heart. I apologized for my past anger, told him I loved him, but that it takes one person to admit responsibilty and chose their path. I wished him the best and still am left with a broken heart, but at least I said what was needed.