I am so very grateful of the warm , welcoming people here, and the great advice that I am getting. I am re-reading it all, and keeping it near, to learn and to use what I am finding here.
Thank you for sharing your stories with me. I am sorry that some of you have such heartache, yet you reach out to others, and give, give , give.
Bless you for it.
I used to go to ACA, meetings, and they changed my life, but I guess I should never have stopped. maybe this would not have happened, if I had not enabled my son from the beginning.
I would love to believe that I did not cause it, but I cannot agree with that, for some reason. Or are you just saying that I did not cause his addictive traits?
I know that I cannot cure it- he has to want that.