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Old 07-10-2010, 04:27 PM
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Learn2Live
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I kept looking at my ex as two people.
Yup, me too. I think we ALL do this. It's weird. But sooner or later, you have to find Acceptance. You have to accept that they are NOT two people, they are ONE person who appears to not be able to make up their minds, who appear to not be able to choose. When in reality, they HAVE chosen. Anyway, that is the dilemma I always put myself through, thinking they couldn't make up their mind, when actually they HAD, no matter WHAT they said.
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